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Today, I was laying around thinking about relationships, and the various feelings one experiences when a relationship comes to an end. In response to the end of a seemingly bad relationship, because EVERY experience comes bearing lessons, the individual will say, “I’ll never be in a relationship” or “I’ll never trust men/women”. And I was thinking… the problem isn’t that you trusted this man or woman. I think what the bigger focal point is..you don’t know if YOU can trust YOURSELF enough to choose someone that will not hurt you again. There’s certainly a layer of mistrust with yourself that must be dealt with. Because, the honest truth is, people are not out to get you. Your life is made up of experiences customized for your evolvement and growth. So, it’s actually fine to feel perhaps hurt and a little bit upset with yourself. It’s fine. But it’s important that you come to terms with the experience and derive the lesson. Because if you don’t, I can guarantee you that this situation will play out in a different way bearing the SAME lesson JUST in a different form. If you believe people are out to get you, that people are mistrustful, you’ll attract those circumstances into existence. It will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. NOT because there aren’t people out there capable of having a loving relationship with you, but because, you’re not conscious enough to spot out those experiences.

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E V E R Y T H I N G .

E V E R Y T H I N G .

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"My memory loves you; it asks about you all the time."

— Jonathan Carroll 

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That is all.

That is all.

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One of my favourites right now… And Repeat.

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" Bed Peace " feat. Childish Gambino

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"The truth is like a lion. You don’t have to defend it. Let it loose. It will defend itself."

— St. Augustine (354–430)

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jheneaiko:

everything must go ….

The sad truth.

jheneaiko:

everything must go ….

The sad truth.

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"But I guess ultimately what scares me about marriage is where do you find this person? You know a lot of times, most successful relationships, people meet through work, school, mutual friends. But what’s most interesting to me is when people just meet in life, just randomly. You know, I have a friend, he got married, I asked him like “Hey, uh, where’d you meet your wife?” He was like “I was leaving Bed, Bath & Beyond. I was looking for my car - I drive a gray Prius. I saw a different gray Prius, I thought it was mine, I walked up to it, I realized I had the wrong car, but I bumped into Carol, we started talking, that was that”. That’s unbelievable. Think about all the random factors that had to come together to make this one moment possible - this one moment that changed these two people’s entire lives: First off, this guy has to live in this particular town. Then he has to get a gray Prius. Then he has to need to go to Bed, Bath & Beyond. Then he has to go to that particular Bed, Bath & Beyond. Then there has to be another guy who also lives in town, also drives a gray Prius, also needs to go to Bed, Bath & Beyond, also goes to that particular Bed, Bath & Beyond at around the same time. Then they have to both park somewhat near each other, my friend has to leave before the other guy leaves, see the wrong Prius, think it’s his, walk up to it. Then the woman, Carol, needs to be near the wrong gray Prius for a million other random reasons. They bump into each other, they start talking, their entire lives are changed. That’s the most amazing and terrifying thing about life. It is, cause the amazing thing is that at any moment, any one of us can have that moment that totally changes our lives. You could be leaving the show tonight, bump into someone… it could change your life. You don’t know, that could happen. The terrifying thing is… what if we’re all supposed to be at Bed Bath & Beyond right now?"

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"I have this strange feeling that I’m not myself anymore. It’s hard to put into words, but I guess it’s like I was fast asleep, and someone came, disassembled me, and hurriedly put me back together again. That sort of feeling."

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Ayanda,  I cannot believe you are really gone.
It’s too soon, but I guess there is never a right time to lose someone hey?
I’m going to miss you.
May your soul see your Allah and Rest In Peace.

Ayanda,  I cannot believe you are really gone.

It’s too soon, but I guess there is never a right time to lose someone hey?

I’m going to miss you.

May your soul see your Allah and Rest In Peace.

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"Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence."

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"We assume others show love the same way we do — and if they don’t, we worry it’s not there."

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Feel free to change.

Feel free to change.

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